Separation and divorce is a stressful and very confusing period of life. Stress levels are exacerbated even further when children are involved. Many marriages and de facto relationships that break down will have children in the equation, and it certainly makes a clean separation that much more complicated. And divorce is difficult enough without one parent refusing visitation rights to the other. If you think a child has been, is being, or is at risk of being harmed you can: report it to the police; report your concerns to Child Safety or call 000 in an emergency. But can anyone stop you?